Hmmmmm,,,,,, What to do about New Years Resolutions???

The only resolution I am willing to make this year is to be gentle with myself... So many other people in our lives aren't gentle with us,,, I'm determined to at least not run myself through the ringer,,,,

OK,,, so I'm also going to try to stop being such a hermit... I say it's because I like being by myself,,, and to some extent that's true,,, but really I think it's become more of a self preservation thing than anything else. The fewer people you let in, the less opportunities to be hurt.

I thought I had for the most part worked through all the 'divorce stuff'... but continue to realize how much that event, and the relationship I was in, has damaged my soul, to the core... So I am also going to try and find my way out,,, out of the fog, out of my hermit's cave, out of my damaged frame of mind.

I am going to try to loose the weight (notice no specific poundage is listed !) I now hide behind,,, If I'm honest with myself,, I know that's what it is,,, one more layer of armour...

So much for no resolutions! Hope you all had a safe and happy celebration! Can't wait to see how this year turns out !

Don't know who this little girl is,,, but doesn't it exactly capture the 'hmmm' frame of mind?